The list, in my order
18 I’d go back to. 5 cost nothing. My verdict on every one, and the ones nearby from my other lists.
Bemelmans Bar

- Address35 E 76th St, New York, NY 10021
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
One of my most unforgettable date nights in New York City was an evening spent at Bemelman’s Bar. Located in the posh Carlyle Hotel, the bar is known for hand-painted murals, celebrity sightings and live piano music.
The aged leather banquettes offer an air of sophistication few bars can emulate well (and not for lack of trying). Peel your eyes away from the handsome murals and let your eyes settle on the bar, watch generous pours of perfectly-executed drinks make their way from one table to the next. The cocktails are excellent, but the dirty martini is where Bemelmans Bar shines, can’t recommend it enough.
P.S. The murals were hand-painted by the famed author and illustrator of the Madeline Books, Ludwig Bemelmans. They were commissioned in the 1940s to depict Central Park in all four seasons.
Website. Bemelmans Bar (no reservations, first come, first served)Address35 E 76th St, New York, NY 10021Featured in15+ Best Things to Do on the Upper East Side Good to know. The bar upholds a smart dress code policy (men are required to wear collared shirts, and casual attire such as shorts and hats are not allowed).
Platform by the James Beard Foundation at Pier 57

The Platform at Pier 57 hosts events and classes with award-winning chefs that are so much fun!
Buvette

I suggest making reservations at Buvette, they have great French cuisine and the most welcoming atmosphere!
Bryant Park

Bryant Park is perfectly tucked into the shadow of towering office buildings that make up the heart of Midtown Manhattan. Located right behind the breathtaking New York Public Library, it’s not uncommon to find all the chairs and benches full during sunny days.
Clocking in at 9.6-acres, thisn’t the largest park in New York City by any stretch of the imagination, but it often feels the most full. It’s a hub for the folks that work in the office buildings that surround the park. The park benches swell with locals during the busy lunch hour most seasons of the year.
My favorite season to visit Bryant Park is summer because of the free movies hosted on the lawn. The entire field is filled with cheery folks on picnic blankets, it’s the epitome of joy. In terms of romantic things to do in New York City, this one is hard to beat.
Trust me. Order whatever the person next to you is having.
The Metropolitan Museum of Art

Strolling past world-renowned art is definitely one of the most romantic things to do in New York City.
- Address1000 5th Ave, New York, NY 10028
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
Dante

Dante was named the best bar in the world in 2019 and appeared on the list again 2020.
- Address551 Hudson Street & 79-81 MacDougal Street
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
Central Park

- Cost$20 per person
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
You probably already know that Central Park is a masterpiece. There’s a reason Central Park is on everyone’s must-see list when visiting New York City. Spanning more than 840 acres, the park is an architectural feat that few can resist falling in love with.
If you’re looking for active date ideas in New York City, sign up for a yoga class in Central Park. Strike a pose and get your stretch on while the epic NYC skyline roots you on. Classes are 75-minutes long and cost $20 per person (making this one of the most affordable date ideas in New York City). You need to reserve your time in advance and bring your own mat.
Feeling a bit less flexible? I got you. Grab a picnic blanket and spread out at Sheep Meadow for a picnic instead. This a favorite summer pastime for locals because it’s one of the most romantic things to do in NYC!
There are so many iconic spots to see in Central Park, if you’d like some guidance during your first visit I suggest reading 15 ICONIC Things to Do in Central Park (our most popular post!).
The High Line

The High Line opened in 2009 and became an instant success. The distinctive promenade stretches 1.5 miles and gets 8 million visitors a year. The distinctive tracks this park was built on were originally used by freight trains delivering cargo to the city (a practice that became moot with the rise in trucking). For ages, the railroad was abandoned and neglected, until Mayor Bloomberg approved a plan to transform the derelict train tracks into a public park.
If you’re into stargazing, partake in the stargazing events hosted every Tuesday at sunset from April through October at the High Line. Read more here. I mean, can you think of a more romantic date night activity than stargazing?
Top of the Rock

- Address30 Rockefeller Plaza, New York, NY
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
I dare you to show me a more mesmerizing skyline than New York’s. And if you’re looking for the absolute best views of New York City, it’s hard to beat the Top of the Rock NYC Observation Deck. The large glass panels offer unobstructed views the NYC skyline, unlike some of the other observation decks in town.
From the Top of Rock, you’ll see the Empire State Building, the Chrysler Building, Flatiron Building and the One World Trade Center. Sometimes it’s fun to play tourist in your own town. So, if you’re looking for famous New York City date night ideas, taking in the sweeping views of Manhattan at sunset should fit the bill.
Loeb Boathouse

At $25 per hour (credit card or Apple Pay only), they’re actually reasonably priced.
- Cost$25 per hour
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
Jazz Club

I’m not big on jazz (sorry!) but even I know better than to pass up an opportunity to plan a fun date night in NYC centered around a historic jazz club! If you’d like to make an occasion feel special, I suggest making reservations at a jazz club for a romantic NYC experience you won’t soon forget.
Helpful Guide. If you’d like some suggestions, here’s a roundup of the 15 best jazz clubs in NYC (based on personal experience).
Brooklyn Bridge

- CostFree
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
When I asked my husband for advice curating this list of romantic things to do in New York City, he chimed in with one suggestion, walk across the Brooklyn Bridge. Considering we’ve spent the last 10 years exploring NYC together, I found it quite telling that this activity sticks out to him, but I can’t disagree. I’m a sucker for this famous NYC experience myself.
The bridge spans 1.1 miles and takes about 30 minutes to cross (at a leisurely pace). I think the views are better when walking towards Manhattan (starting in DUMBO). You’ll see the Statue of Liberty and Freedom Tower in their full glory, it’s a remarkable experience.
Helpful Guide20 Best Things to Do in DUMBO, Brooklyn
Brooklyn Promenade

Make your way to Brooklyn Heights and take a lovely stroll along the Brooklyn Promenade at sunset. This promenade offers the best free views of the city, making it a great option for those looking for fun NYC date ideas on a budget.
Walk up Willow Street while admiring the charming streets of Brooklyn Heights, as you slowly make your way to a local bar to warm up with an afternoon drink. I suggest Bohemian Bar, Inga’s Bar or The Long Island Bar.
Bonus Points. When you’re ready to get back to Manhattan, pop on the ferry! Soak in the twinkling lights of the skyline, at $4 per person, this one of the most affordable date night ideas in NYC.
Helpful Guide. 15 Best Things to Do in Brooklyn Heights (Local’s Guide)
Lincoln Center

- AddressLincoln Center Plaza, New York, NY
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
Here’s the thing, if you’re visiting NYC during Christmas, you can’t afford to miss the breathtaking Nutcracker performance at the Lincoln Center. Here’s the other thing, if you’re NOT visiting during Christmas, you’ll still have an opportunity to participate in this romantic NYC activity.
Founded in 1950, the Lincoln Center is home to the Metropolitan Opera House, New York Philharmonic, New York City Opera, New York City Ballet, the School of American Ballet, Julliard School of Music, the Chamber Music Society and the Film Society.
In other words, the Lincoln Center is the cultural capital not only of the Upper West Side, but of NYC as a whole. This the place to go to see world-class opera, theater, ballet and jazz. So if you’re looking to impressive someone with an unforgettable date night in New York City, this would be my suggestion.
Gramercy Tavern

- Cost$$$$
- Address42 E 20th St, New York, NY
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
Did you know New York City home to 70 Michelin-starred restaurants? That’s a big deal. What better way to take advantage of the world-class cuisine in the Big Apple than by treating your special someone to some fine dining.
One of my go-to spots for fine dining is Gramercy Tavern. This famous NYC restaurant dates back to 1994 and is known for its commitment to seasonal, locally sourced ingredients. The restaurants has earned nine James Beard Awards, including “Outstanding Restaurant” and “Outstanding Chef in America.” All this to say, it’s hard to go wrong with a fancy meal here for a fun date night in NYC.
If you’re looking to splurge, opt for the 5-course tasting menu. I did this for my 30th birthday and was very impressed! Feeling more casual? Enjoy a meal in the Tavern instead, Gramercy Tavern makes some of the best burgers in NYC!
Broadway Show

Yes, Broadway Shows are expensive, but the experience is unforgettable and so romantic. Something I wish I knew earlier was that certain Broadway Shows have a lottery system where you can apply to win free tickets in advance. Seems like a long shot, but one of my coworkers won two tickets to Hamilton! Maybe you can get lucky too? Imagine scoring affordable tickets to see a show, it’s be an incredible date night!
Helpful Guide10 Brilliant Broadway Shows in New York City (For All Interests)
Bar Blondeau

one of my go-to spots is Bar Blondeau in Greenpoint.
Balthazar

- Address80 Spring St, New York, NY
- From my guide, updated September 2026.
Warm and inviting, Balthazar exudes romantic vibes ideal for memorable brunch dates. Whenever someone plans to visit, the first thing I do is make reservations at Balthazar because the place never fails to impress.
The decor and tantalizing smells have a way of transporting everyone to Paris. The food always hits the spot and the picked wine list only adds to the romance. If you’re looking for a romantic thing to do in New York City, make brunch at Balthazar a priority.
I suggest lingering for a while, don’t rush the meal (or experience). Settle in and whisper sweet little nothings until your cheeks get sore from smiling. Isn’t that what the weekend is for?
