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Can you comment on Our Daily Bread & The Gluten Free Bakery , Chatham NY please? showed up on my feed . Looks great but no reviews. thank You for a quick response!

Hi Sandy, thanks for reading! I haven't made it up to Chatham yet so I can't vouch for it personally, this list sticks to the five boroughs. A dedicated gluten free bakery in that part of New York sounds promising though. If you try it, come back and tell me how it was!

Gluten-Free Bakeries in New York

Thank you Antonina! Do you recommend one Dante location over the other for predinner drinks and after dinner drinks? The type of happy hour drinks not that important more for the classic evening date night vibe. Love…

Great question, Erin! For a classic evening date I'd go to the original Dante on MacDougal, that's the one with all the history and it's pure magic after dark. The West Village location on Hudson is bigger and easier for walk ins, so it's my pick for pre dinner drinks. Have the best night!

A Very Helpful Guide to Visiting the West Village

OMG I LOVE this .. I hope you are gone because BETTER things came up for you. Our LOSS ..beauty Photog and great writing! All the best and THANK YOU. Hilary

Ha, no, not gone anywhere, just out here documenting every borough one bridge walk at a time. Thank you for the kind words, that means a lot. DUMBO's one of my favorite excuses to drag people across the Brooklyn Bridge and I don't plan on stopping.

What Does DUMBO Stand For

Hi Antonia I’m so glad I came across your website. I’m from the UK and considering a family summer camp in New Hampshire next August (where I was a camp counsellor many moons ago) with a few days in NY first (and…

Hi Jo, that sounds like such a good trip, camp nostalgia plus NYC with the kids first is a great combo. Follow the tips on pacing and you'll be fine, New York can be a lot if you try to cram too much in. Have fun getting reacquainted with New Hampshire after!

Days in New York with Kids

Hi, thanks so much for the info! Just wanted to let you know that reservations are now opening up 6 days ahead of time (not 5!) I found this out too late unfortunately!

Oh thank you so much for the heads up! I'll get that updated right away -- really appreciate you letting me know!

Macy’s Santaland, Tickets, Timing and What It’s Really Like

My son and I are planning to travel to NYC just for the parade. We cant afford a hotel or air bnb so in order to fulfill his dream, Im planning to pull an all nighter and drive in from West Virginia, arriving at 6am.…

Oh how fun! I hope you have the most wonderful trip -- this city really is magical. Enjoy every second!

Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, the Route and Where to Stand

Thank you SO MUCH for recommending the Gansevoort Meatpacking! I was racking my brain for HOURS until I found your site, and this looks like our perfect hotel in the exact area we wanted to visit for my daughter's high…

That one's not actually on this list, I don't recommend the Gansevoort Meatpacking in this guide at all. Might be a mix up with another site. For a graduation trip I'd point you toward the neighborhoods I actually cover here, Upper West Side and Upper East Side are both solid picks.

Where to Stay in New York With Kids

Your portable charger link no longer works. :( Do you have the brand you have or another recommendation? Thank you! Your site has helped us plan well!

Oh that's so helpful, thank you! I love when readers help me keep things accurate -- will update the post!

Worthwhile Winter Activities in New York

In my opinion, It Happened on Fifth Avenue was a great Christmas movie ...

I haven't seen that one in years, honestly, but it's a fun call out. My list here is really the ones I think are the most iconic NYC holiday watches, but there's room for plenty more on the list of movies filmed here during Christmas.

Christmas Movies Filmed in New York

One of the most beautiful things about NYC is the buildings. Do you realize that most folks, including New Yorkers never look at them. Thirty years of going into the city and I never get tired of looking. I stand to the…

Thirty years and still looking up, I love that. You're right that most people don't, myself included on a rushed Tuesday. Standing to the edge and out of the way is exactly the move, that's not being a tourist, that's just having manners while you gawk. The buildings deserve it.

Things to Do in New York

Is it worth visiting Dyker Hts. prior to Thanksgiving (for example the weekend before)?

I'd say no because the decorations come out in full force right after Thanksgiving, not before. Cheers!

Dyker Heights Christmas Lights, Dates, Best Blocks and Getting There

hi. I just bought your guide through ETSY. imwe are celebrating my daughter's sweet 16 and are visiting on December 12, 13, 14, and 15. since we are there for Friday through Monday, how do you think I should schedule my…

Hi Magda, thanks so much for grabbing the guide and happy sweet 16 to your daughter, what a fun way to celebrate!

Since you’ll be here Friday through Monday, I’d recommend front-loading some of the “big ticket” holiday sights (Rockefeller Tree, 5th Avenue windows, Bryant Park Winter Village, Central Park skating) on Friday and Monday. Those are busiest on weekends, so you’ll have more breathing room if you do them on the weekdays.

Saturday and Sunday are perfect for experiences that can handle the crowds better, like exploring SoHo and the West Village, walking the Brooklyn Bridge into DUMBO, or catching a Christmas show in the evening (the Nutcracker, Rockettes, or a Broadway performance). If you’re interested in the holiday cruise, I’d book that for Saturday evening – it’s festive, special for a birthday, and doesn’t feel overwhelming even when it’s busy.

Think of it this way:

Friday (arrival/easing in): West Village brunch → Chelsea Market/High Line → Hudson Yards lights → Macy’s windows → Christmas-themed dinner.

Saturday (weekend energy): Brooklyn Bridge/DUMBO → 9/11 Memorial → holiday cruise.

Sunday (big shopping + show day): SoHo shopping → Rubirosa pizza → Katz Deli → Christmas performance.

Monday (less crowded): Central Park skate + walk → 5th Ave windows → Rockefeller Tree → Bryant Park Market → Summit One Vanderbilt for a big finale.

That way, you get the best balance – avoiding the worst of the weekend lines, while still soaking in the holiday buzz when it adds to the atmosphere.

Hope that helps and don't hesitate to reach out with more questions etc.

Things to Do for Christmas in New York

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