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The hardest reservations in New York City

The hardest reservations in New York

Antonina PattizWriting about New York since 202015 places in this guide

No, it's not just you. Reservations are getting harder to score, and some restaurants in New York City are so exclusive they're ready to meet your parents. As a longtime local, I looked into the hardest reservations to get in New York City, let's get the party started.

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Julie Greenwood

I got lucky at Don Angie once, I showed up at opening with no reservation and was told to come back at 8 for a table. The meal was sooooo worth the wait!

My ranking: reservations to score in New York City

In my order. It’s my taste, and I say so.

  1. MisiMisiWilliamsburg
  2. CarboneCarboneGreenwich Village
  3. The Polo BarThe Polo BarMidtown

And Rao's, The Four Horsemen, 4 Charles Prime Rib, Don Angie, I Sodi, Atomix, Semma, Tatiana by Chef Kwame, Thai Diner, Via Carota, Lilia, Roscioli.

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The list in my order

13 I’d go back to and 2 only if it suits you. My verdict on every one, and the ones nearby from my other lists.

1

Rao's

RestaurantHarlem
Worth it
  • Address455 E 114th St, New York, NY 10029

Opened in 1896, Rao’s is a small Italian restaurant that’s catered to New York City’s elites for over a century. The likes of John Gotti, Eli Manning, and Mariah Carey have all been regulars at the Harlem restaurant.

Thanks to the constant demand Rao’s has become one of the hardest reservations to get in New York City. The tables are so exclusive that longtime owner, Frank Pellegrino, was given a nickname – Frankie No.

In an interview before his passing, Pellegrino said every table at Rao’s has been booked for the last 38 years. So how do you get your hands on the most elusive reservation in New York City? You pray you befriend a celebrity!

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
2

Misi

RestaurantWilliamsburg
Worth it
Misi, a wooden restaurant table holds a peach salad and ricotta toast alongside a candle and water glass.
  • Address329 Kent Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11249

Misi is the restaurant whose success I feel is my own. Every time I take a friend here they pass it on to their friends, it’s like a pyramid scheme at this point.

Am I responsible for making Misi one of the hardest reservations to get in New York City? Probably not, but I was a part of it. It’s bittersweet but let’s be honest, the pasta dishes are 100% worth the hype!

3

The Four Horsemen

BarWilliamsburg
Worth it
  • Costunder $35 entrees
  • Address295 Grand St, Brooklyn, NY 11211

The Four Horsemen would be my go-to date night restaurant if it wasn’t one of the hardest reservations to get in New York City. The Brooklyn wine bar is the full package, and even boasts a Michelin Star.

It’s one of the most affordable Michelin restaurants in NYC, with no entree clocking in north of $35 (just don’t get carried away with the wine menu). The hard part is securing a table, Resy’s go live at 7AM, 30 days in advance.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
4

Carbone

RestaurantGreenwich Village
Worth it
Carbone, a neon sign reading Carbone hangs above the restaurant's awnings in Greenwich Village.
  • Address181 Thompson St, New York, NY 10012

I visited Carbone the week after the Biebers were denied entrance because they didn’t have a reservation. It felt nice knowing I’m not the only one struggling with hard to get reservations in New York City.

While savoring every bite of the spicy vodka rigatoni I knew there were countless others who couldn’t get reservations to the elegant Italian restaurant. My advice: be patient, reservations are available 30 days in advance.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
5

4 Charles Prime Rib

RestaurantWest Village
Worth it
  • Cost$$$$
  • Address4 Charles St #3004, New York, NY 10014

Another celebrity hotbed, 4 Charles Prime Rib is the steakhouse to end all steakhouses. It’s dim-lit and boasts a tantalizing, exclusive atmosphere that makes it hard for athletes, musicians and actors to resist.

The food is top-notch, which you’d expect from one of the hardest reservations to get in New York City, and has the price tag to match. If you’re one of the lucky few to make a reservation, don’t leave without trying the dessert!

I’ll let you in on a local secret: 4 Charles Prime Rib has one of the best burgers in NYC but folks are often left licking their lips since they can’t get reservations. Instead, head to Au Cheval their sister restaurant for the same burger!

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
6

The Polo Bar

BarMidtown
Worth it
The Polo Bar, the teal awning and gold storefront of the Polo Bar restaurant on a city street.
  • Address1 E 55th St, New York, NY 10022

While there are plenty of restaurants in New York that cater to Influencers, The Polo Bar oozes a sense of old money. It’s elegant and offers high-class drinks and dinner, which you’d expect from a bar run by Ralph Lauren.

Unlike most restaurants in New York City, The Polo Bar still offers most of their reservations old school. Your best chance at getting a table is by phone at (212) 207-8562, but don’t hold your breath. Some folks are on hold for hours only to get a reservation more than a month out. Remember, if at first you don’t succeed, try try again.

If you are one of the few lucky diners don’t forget to follow the dress code. Athletic wear, beach wear, T-shirts, hoodies, ripped jeans, and hats are not allowed, and jackets aren’t required but encouraged for men.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
7

Don Angie

RestaurantWest Village
Worth it
  • Address103 Greenwich Ave, New York, NY 10014

The only thing worse than not getting a reservation to Don Angie’s is getting one, trying it, and then chasing that high again but not being able to get a second reservation.

How can I eat anything else when I’ve seen the light?

This is one of the few times I’m glad a restaurant lost its Michelin Star (which Don Angie did in 2023). I’m hoping it makes the New York City restaurant’s reservations a little easier to get. I’m just dying to get back to that lasagna!

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
8

I Sodi

RestaurantWest Village
Worth it
  • Address314 Bleecker St, New York, NY 10014

Another West Village hot spot, I Sodi follows the traditions of Rita Sodi’s upbringing on a farm near Florence, Italy. The food is simple but so rich in flavor, and with only eight tables it’s one of the hardest reservations to get in New York City. Resys are available two weeks out, refreshing each day at midnight.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
9

Atomix

RestaurantNoMad
Worth it
  • Address104 E 30th St, New York, NY 10016

This fine-dining Korean restaurant has only been open for five years but has been filling up its trophy case.

Atomix boasts two Michelin Stars, was voted the eighth best restaurant in the world in 2023 and head chef Junghyun Park won the James Beard award for Best Chef in New York State (2023).

With so much buzz it’s understandable why Atomix is one of the hardest reservations to get in New York City. They have a partnership with American Express Global Dining Access and also have reservations available on Tock.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
10

Semma

RestaurantWest Village
Worth it
  • Address60 Greenwich Ave, New York, NY 10011

South Indian fare in the coziest of settings? Where do I sign up? Semma is the only Michelin Star Indian restaurant in the U.S., and that success has led it to become one of the most impossible reservations to get in New York City.

I’ll leave you with a pro-tip: order the Gunpowder Dosa. It’s a rice and lentil crepe that will bring you to your knees and make any stress incurred during the reservation process all worth it. Reservations are available two weeks out.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
11

Tatiana by Chef Kwame

RestaurantLincoln Center
Only if
  • Address10 Lincoln Center Plaza, New York, NY 10023

Tatiana by Chef Kwame Onwuachi blends African, Caribbean, Southern and New York cuisines into a menu that’s brimming with both originality and flavor.

Take the Truffle Chopped Cheese for example. It takes one of the most beloved street foods in New York City and elevates the dish with quality ingredients and masterful cooking.

The young chef has tapped into a unique market, and folks are eager to give the restaurant a try. So if you want to get your hands on one of the hardest reservations in New York City you’ll have to set an alarm 28 days in advance.

Only if. Been? Say if you agree.
12

Thai Diner

RestaurantNolita
Worth it
  • Address186 Mott St, New York, NY 10012

Thai Diner reservations aren’t impossible to get, but they’re not the easiest in New York City either. The restaurant operates in a mostly walk-in basis and reservations are only available about a week in advance.

Getting a reservation is worth it, though, since sometimes you walk into the restaurant and they don’t have a table for another four hours. Regardless of how you get a table, don’t leave without drinking a Thai iced tea.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
13

Via Carota

RestaurantWest Village
Worth it
  • Address51 Grove St, New York, NY 10014

Via Carota is an Italian restaurant that opened to a lot of fanfare, being owned and operated by two of NYC’s most renowned restaurateurs. I’ve been haphazardly trying to snag a reservation for the last two years, to no avail.

The reservations won’t get any easier to get either. In 2023 Pete Wells, restaurant critic for the New York Times, ranked Via Carota the fourth best restaurant in New York City so the demand will see no end.

The hard to get reservations are available 30 days in advance, and go live on Resy at 10AM daily.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
14

Lilia

RestaurantWilliamsburg
Worth it
  • Address567 Union Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11211

Plot twist: another Italian restaurant makes the list. I promise I’m not being biased, it’s just New Yorkers can’t get enough of the magic pastas, wines and wood-fired seafood at Lilia.

It almost doesn’t matter the restaurant is housed in a former auto body shop. The hard to get reservations go live at 10AM, 28 days in advance, so set an alarm to dine at one of the most popular restaurants in New York City.

Worth it. Been? Say if you agree.
15

Roscioli

RestaurantGreenwich Village
Only if
  • Address43 MacDougal St, New York, NY 10012

Roscioli has long been one of the best restaurants in Rome, and when the Italian restaurant announced they were opening a location in New York City it stirred up a whirlwind of commotion.

Reservations refresh daily for the New York City outpost at 10AM, 30 days in advance for their tasting menu and 14 days out for a la carte. The restaurant also hosts a variety of wine tastings that are easier to get into, where you get three courses of wine and three paired small bites.

Only if. Been? Say if you agree.

Tips for Scoring Exclusive Reservations in NYC

Set an alarm (seriously) The most obvious tip for securing impossible reservations in New York City is to set alarms. Most restaurants release a new batch of reservations at specific times. So long as you’re refreshing the website (Resy/OpenTable too) when the reservations refresh your chances of snagging one go up drastically.

Check your credit card for concierge service If you have one of the premium credit cards with American Express you might have a benefit called Global Access Dining. Sometimes you call the number on the back of your card and ask for reservations to the most exclusive restaurants in NYC.

Expand your group You’d think that a bigger group means harder to accomadate, but a lot of restaurants will set most of their tables aside for couples. You could have better luck with hard to get reservations in NYC if you look for a table for four, rather than hjyst a table for two.

Avoid Appointtrader Appointment Trader is a new website/app that allows folks to buy and sell hard to get reservations in New York City. I’ve heard more than one horror story that’s made me stay away. The biggest complaint is folks will sell a reservation and then cancel it, leaving the person who bought it without dinner plans.

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Julie Greenwood

I got lucky at Don Angie once, I showed up at opening with no reservation and was told to come back at 8 for a table. The meal was sooooo worth the wait!

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